The little bothers in life can suddenly become big ugly issues. Words that don’t even really matter get said in hateful ugly ways out of habit.
The enemy uses the words and the attitudes of others to cause pain. That way it keeps us tied up in doubting our abilities. It builds up fear that we are not good enough, and it holds us back from God’s best.
Giving the silent treatment, ignoring people, those are love killers. That’s not Father God’s plan for relationships.
When it becomes habit, we don’t even realize the pain we deliver and deliver and deliver. It’s an ugly habit that becomes a lifestyle.
And each remark spoken with poison becomes a love killer. Each unkind response – or even lack of response – love killers. Slowly sapping the life out of the one receiving the hurt.
They lose focus that, in love, God Most High created with purpose, of their unique gifts when He assigned it to them.
He gave your gift so it could be used more powerfully for His purpose when blended with the unique gifts he assigned to others.
People have the power to change their perspective. They just get caught up in the endless cycle of things that don’t matter.
Our gifts are almost as powerful as love when they are used in the right way, with the right attitude according to His plan.